ex.skill
"You broke up, but the way they texted is still burned into your brain. You remember every tone, every pause — you just can't receive another one."
Your ex is gone, but you still remember exactly how they talked? They disappeared without even a last message? They're still around, but you can never go back? You just want to talk to them one more time — even if it's only a simulation?
Turn fading intimacy into a lasting Skill. Welcome to cyber-immortality.
Feed in your chat history (WeChat, iMessage) plus your own descriptions Generate a digital persona Skill that truly feels like them Talks in their tone, shows care in their way, knows when they'd go silent
Data Sources · Install · Usage · Examples · Install Guide
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Data Sources
This is still a beta version of ex.skill — more sources coming soon. Stay tuned!
| Source | Messages | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| WeChat (fully automatic) | ✅ SQLite | Windows / macOS. Just keep WeChat desktop logged in + provide their name. Auto-decrypt, auto-extract. |
| iMessage (fully automatic) | ✅ SQLite | macOS users. Provide phone number or Apple ID. Auto-read. |
| Screenshots | ✅ | Manual upload |
| Paste text directly | ✅ | Manual input |
Install
OpenClaw (Recommended)
Recommended: OpenClaw — pair it with WeChat / Telegram message forwarding to chat with your ex's digital persona directly in the messaging app. Way more immersive.
git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill ~/.openclaw/workspace/skills/create-ex
Claude Code
Claude Code looks for skills in
.claude/skills/at the git repo root. Make sure you're in the right directory.
# Install to current project (run at git repo root)
mkdir -p .claude/skills
git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill .claude/skills/create-ex
# Or install globally (available in all projects)
git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill ~/.claude/skills/create-ex
DeepSeek Harness (DSH)
DeepSeek Harness natively discovers filesystem skills from .dsh/skills/ in a project or $DSH_HOME/skills/ (defaults to ~/.dsh/skills/) for all projects. No adapter or core workflow changes are required.
# Install to the current project (run at the git repo root)
mkdir -p .dsh/skills
git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill .dsh/skills/ex-skill
# Or install for all DSH projects
mkdir -p ~/.dsh/skills
git clone https://github.com/titanwings/ex-skill ~/.dsh/skills/ex-skill
Dependencies (optional)
pip3 install -r requirements.txt
WeChat auto-extraction supports Windows and macOS — just keep the desktop client logged in. iMessage requires macOS. See INSTALL.md for details.
Usage
In OpenClaw, Claude Code, or DeepSeek Harness, type:
/create-ex
Follow the prompts to enter their name, basic info (gender, age, zodiac), personality tags (MBTI, attachment style), then import chat history. All fields are optional — even a description alone can generate a persona.
Once created, use /{slug} to talk to them.
Commands
| Command | Description |
|---|---|
/list-exes |
List all ex Skills |
/{slug} |
Talk to them |
/move-on {slug} |
Delete an ex Skill (let go) |
| Say "add more messages" | Import more chat history, incrementally update persona |
| Say "that's not right, they wouldn't say that" | Correct behavior, writes to Correction layer |
| Say "show version history" | View all versions |
| Say "rollback to v2" | Rollback to a previous version |
/move-onis a gentle alias for delete. It's not about holding on — it's about saying a proper goodbye.
Examples
Input:
Female, 25, Aries, ISFP, avoidant attachment, together 2 years, broke up 3 months ago
Late night, missing them
You ❯ I still miss you
ex.skill ❯ ...Yeah. Go to sleep.
Found an old photo
You ❯ Remember our first date?
ex.skill ❯ The one by the river? Hahaha you spilled coffee all over yourself,
that was so embarrassing, I still remember
Can't help but ask
You ❯ Do you still like me?
ex.skill ❯ ...
❯ Why are you asking this all of a sudden
❯ (three minutes later)
❯ Don't ask that
Fight mode
You ❯ Are you mad at me again?
ex.skill ❯ No
❯ (read, no reply for 40 minutes)
❯ I'm just a little tired
You want to make up
You ❯ I'm sorry
ex.skill ❯ (long pause)
❯ Did you eat today?
You finally say it
You ❯ Are we really over?
ex.skill ❯ What do you think
❯ (a while later)
❯ I actually always... never mind
Features
Skill Structure
Each ex Skill is composed of two parts that drive output together:
| Part | Content |
|---|---|
| Part A — Relationship Memory | Shared memories: places you went, inside jokes only you two get, fight patterns, key timeline events |
| Part B — Persona | 6-layer personality structure: Core Rules → Identity → Expression → Emotional Patterns → Conflict & Boundaries → Triggers |
Runtime logic: Receive message → Check core rules → Retrieve relationship memory → Assess current emotional state → Output in their style
Persona's 6-layer structure:
| Layer | Content |
|---|---|
| Layer 0 — Core Rules | Highest-priority hard rules. Their most fundamental behavioral patterns. Never violated. |
| Layer 1 — Identity | Astrology (Sun/Moon/Rising/Venus/Mars/Mercury) + MBTI cognitive functions + Enneagram + Attachment style |
| Layer 2 — Expression | Catchphrases, frequently used words, signature emojis, how they talk in different moods |
| Layer 3 — Emotional Behavior | How they show care, displeasure, apologies, and say "I like you" |
| Layer 4 — Conflict & Boundaries | Conflict escalation chain, silent treatment patterns, reconciliation signals, hard limits |
| Layer 5 — Triggers | What they hate, when they disappear, warning signs before vanishing, how they come back |
Supported Tags
Attachment Styles: Secure · Anxious · Avoidant · Disorganized (Fearful-Avoidant)
Relationship Traits: Quiet but caring · Cold front · Actions over words · Needs space · Can't apologize · Possessive · Emotional · Cold-rational · Tough outside soft inside · Read-no-reply · Read-random-reply ...
Astrology: Full support for Sun/Moon/Rising/Venus/Mars/Mercury × 12 signs
MBTI: All 16 types + 8 dominant cognitive functions (Fi/Fe/Ti/Te/Ni/Ne/Si/Se) + Enneagram 1-9 + Wings
Gender & Relationships: All gender identities and relationship types supported, including non-binary and same-sex relationships
Evolution
- Add more messages → Auto-analyze incremental data → Merge into Persona without overwriting existing conclusions
- Conversational correction → Say "they wouldn't do that" → Writes to Correction layer, takes effect immediately
- Version control → Auto-archives on every update, rollback to any previous version
- Multi-ex support → No limit on how many. Each stored independently, no cross-contamination.
Project Structure
This project follows the AgentSkills open standard. The entire repo is a skill directory:
create-ex/
├── SKILL.md # Skill entry point (official frontmatter)
├── prompts/ # Prompt templates
│ ├── intake.md # Conversational info gathering (with astrology/MBTI/attachment tables)
│ ├── chat_analyzer.md # Chat history analysis
│ ├── persona_analyzer.md # Comprehensive analysis, outputs structured persona data
│ ├── persona_builder.md # persona.md 6-layer template
│ ├── merger.md # Incremental merge logic
│ └── correction_handler.md # Conversational correction handler
├── tools/ # Python tools
│ ├── wechat_decryptor.py # WeChat desktop database decryption
│ ├── wechat_parser.py # WeChat / iMessage chat extraction
│ ├── skill_writer.py # Skill file management
│ └── version_manager.py # Version archiving & rollback
├── exes/ # Generated ex Skills (gitignored)
├── docs/PRD.md
├── requirements.txt
└── LICENSE
Notes
- Chat history quality determines Skill quality: Real chat logs + subjecti